It is common for people to want to get through a divorce as quickly as possible. Divorce is difficult, and moving on with your life is an important part of the healing process.
Typically, the quickest way to get through a divorce is to collaborate on the terms. However, in certain situations it may be more advantageous for you to take your divorce to trial. According to Forbes Magazine, when you are making this decision you must weigh time and money against predicted outcomes.
What about time and money?
Trial divorces are more expensive and take longer than collaborative divorces. You will need to meet more often with your attorney throughout a trial divorce. Meeting with your attorney more frequently makes the divorce more expensive. Not only will you need to pay for these extra meetings, you must also attend your court dates.
Additionally, you will also have to wait for the court to have time to hear your case. You may have to wait weeks or months for this alone.
What about results?
Collaborative divorce has many benefits, but both parties have to be willing to negotiate in order for it to be fruitful. If you and your ex cannot be in the same room and have a civil conversation, you will not be able to negotiate.
If you are unlikely to get what you want through negotiation, trial may be your only option. However, remember that you will need to present your case to the judge using logic and law. If you simply wish a podium to express your feelings about your spouse, going to trial is not a good idea.